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In a significant stride towards fostering inclusivity and providing a safe space for the LGBT community in Northern Ireland, a new social group called Out and Active NI has quickly blossomed since its inception. Founded by Ryan Lee Gribben and his husband, the group was established as an antidote to the often nightlife-centric social scene for LGBT individuals, instead offering an array of active, outdoor, and alcohol-free events. Gribben, motivated by the desire to create inclusive spaces after experiencing limited social options himself, envisioned a community where authentic connections could flourish.
Donal Conlon, who returned to Northern Ireland from London during the Covid-19 pandemic, discovered the group at a critical point in his life. The isolation of lockdowns had been challenging, and he was actively seeking ways to alleviate his anxiety and re-engage with social circles. Joining Out and Active NI turned out to be transformative for him. Since attending their inaugural scavenger hunt last November, which involved exploring the streets of Belfast armed with clues and camaraderie, Conlon has regained confidence and a sense of belonging within this vibrant community.
Out and Active NI has seen rapid growth, amassing over 900 members in Belfast alone. The group's ethos centres on promoting a welcoming environment for all LGBTQIA+ individuals and allies, emphasizing activities that encourage direct interaction and camaraderie. This initiative addresses a noticeable gap—many younger members are accustomed to digital communication and face challenges forming connections without technology or alcohol as intermediaries.
Speaking at a recent sea swim event at Crawfordsburn Beach, Gribben highlighted the necessity of such spaces, where communication unfolds naturally.
"We have amazing technology in 2025, but many young people struggle with social interactions without a screen," he explained.
The group creates scenarios where members can engage playfully and supportively, whether through games like rounders or other physical activities, which build confidence and foster friendships.
Mark Gallagher, another early member, expressed how the group fills a unique niche, setting itself apart from existing LGBT sporting groups by emphasizing social connectivity alongside activity. His testimonial underscores the progress Northern Ireland has made regarding LGBT issues, while also recognizing that more work remains. Having a supportive space where judgment and misunderstanding are absent allows participants to open up and connect authentically.
The group offers diverse experiences, from a reenactment of the popular BBC show Traitors in Donegal to exhilarating days at Todd's Leap Activity Centre in Dungannon. Robin Mairs, inspired to try hiking and sea swimming for the first time, praised these opportunities for strengthening relationships outside of traditional pub and club settings.
"I feel seen and understood, and I don't have to hide any part of who I am," Mairs said, reflecting on the profound impact of these authentic connections.
Looking ahead, Out and Active NI plans to expand its range of activities, with upcoming events including a weekend retreat focused on mindfulness and community building. By continuing to offer diverse and engaging programming, Out and Active NI is not just a social group; it is a beacon of inclusivity and acceptance, fostering genuine connections and building a resilient and supportive community.